Have some spare time?

  • Parent Category: News
  • Published: Monday, 23 September 2013 13:04
  • Written by Jason Scott

Gay Fresno is looking for volunteers to participate in such areas as...

Seek out and encourage writers and journalists to contribute to the site.  Proof read and approve submissions.  Seek out new and interesting articles of interest to the LGBT community.

Information distribution
Seeking assistance with distributing business cards and brochures. Items will promote our organization. This will mainly occur in the tower district, but also other local book stores, etc. Literature to distribute can be picked up and the time frame is flexible.

Online outreach
Assistance needed with expanding our online outreach via Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest, etc. 
Our goal is to continue to expend our reach outside of the Fresno/Clovis area to other communities in the Central Valley. This opportunity would include working on helping us more closely interact with our "friends" on social networks to become involved and to expand the existing networks.

Sponsorship assistance
Seeking assistance with making telephone calls and sending emails to potential advertisers.

LGBT Friendly directory
Soliciting companies from our visitors/readers and making phone calls to build an LGBT friendly community directory.

If one or more of these are of interest to you, please This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. for all the details!

Adam Cervantes memorial fund

  • Parent Category: News
  • Published: Saturday, 07 September 2013 10:34
  • Written by Jason Scott

Adam Cervantes (in White)

Adam Cervantes (in White) along with Anthony at Day of Decision 2013


Adam was known in the community as a person with a heart of gold! His life was tragically cut short due to a random act of violence while attempting to save 2 kids he saw being abused! He was a member of The Big Red Church as well as a volunteer for various mental health programs and The LGBTQ Community! He managed to overcome various struggles including being chronically homeless! He Left behind his Best Friend and Husband as well as his Parents, Siblings and large extended family and So Many Friends he made Long his short journey on Earth!
Questions can be directed to his husband, Anthony here.



Proof that we've come a long way...gayby!

  • Parent Category: News
  • Published: Tuesday, 27 August 2013 17:03
  • Written by Jase Garrigus

Ok, ok, ok…I know it was cheesy, cliché, and perhaps a bit punny, but does that make it any less true?  While I’m not quite old enough to remember Stonewall, I have many friends that do.  Most of us have heard the stories.   The history of our community is littered with all many of horror stories detailing the obstacles and tribulations of a culture desperately struggling for acceptance.  From riots in the streets of New York to the assassination of Harvey Milk, from the hateful words of Anita Bryant to the protests of Westboro Baptist church, if there is one thing we can all agree on – we’ve seen our fair share of ugliness.   As a community, we tend to dwell on that ugliness; it serves as a fuel for our movement, but I find that more and more we are seeing a change in attitudes toward the LGBT community.  We have witnessed the passing of a plethora of positive LGBT legislation, the end of discriminatory laws like DOMA and Proposition 8, and the growth of this country toward true equality.  Are we finished?   No.  Is there room for more growth?  Always.  But…no matter how you slice it…we’ve come a very long way in a short period of time.

Recently, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Gregg Kaminsky and Kelli Carpenter, the founders of R Family Vacations.  For the last decade, Gregg and Kelli have been planning and promoting vacations for LGBT couples, their children, extended family, and friends.  They provide positive experiences that allow LGBT families to just ‘be themselves.’  With venues both domestic and abroad, more than 15,000 guests have benefitted from their hard work and dedication.  This year they chose Wonder Valley Ranch Resort, here in the Central Valley of California, as their venue.  This reporter is pleased to report that they have had an amazing experience.

“The [Wonder Valley Ranch] resort staff has been awesome.  Everyone has been kind and friendly,” Kaminsky stated.  “It just needs to be said.  They deserve to be recognized for it.”  Given the Central Valley is known for its conservative attitude toward LGBT rights, this is profound-a testimony to where we are headed as a people.  His business partner, Kelli Carpentar told me, “[The staff] has been present for several of the educational programs.  They were listening and participating.”  I was also surprised to learn from them that they have met very little resistance in planning these vacations and have experienced only one protest in the last 10 years.

Each vacation offers unique opportunities for LGBT families to grow and experience life together.  This week has been no different.  Guests have been able to participate in a variety of activities including: horseback riding, swimming, fishing, archery, and yoga- all offered by the resort.  The Family Equality Council provides R Family Vacations with programs and presentations to educate people on the issues that face LGBT families in this country.  In addition, R Vacations provides their own entertainment including a piano bar, dances, singing, and special guests, like LGBT comedian Alec Mapa.  Stephen Botte, a veteran vacationer with R Vacations shared with me an experience he had while visiting with his son Francesco.  “There was a dance last night, and all these kids were just having a great time.  It was very emotional for me to see all of them so happy and enjoying themselves.”  Isn’t that what a good vacation is all about?  Cindy Bokitch and Julie Drzymala are among the guests, celebrating their 9th year with R Family Vacations.  Cindy told me, “We love being able to do this, because I get to hear my kids ask some amazing questions.  They’ll say, ‘Do you have two dads or two moms?’ or ‘Were you adopted or invetro?’  I just think it’s great that they can do that and feel normal doing it.” Cindy and Julie gave high praise not only to R Family Vacations, but also to the resort.  “Everyone has been just great to us.  So loving and interested and kind.”

Gregg and Kelli both relayed to me the truth behind their business.  “It’s not just about providing families with a good vacation,” Kaminsky said.  “It’s about creating opportunities to educate and grow.”  Ms. Carpentar added, “It’s about social awareness and showing [LGBT families] in a positive light.”  Well, Gregg and Kelli, you’re doing a great job at all of the above.  I spoke with multiple guests as well as resort staff members, and every single person had nothing but wonderful things to say about their experiences with R Family Vacations.  One young guest summed it up for me.  I asked, “What’s been your favorite thing so far?”  And with a pensive grin, she said, “All the smiles.”

If you are looking for a fun-filled, thrilling, family-oriented adventure complete with Broadway music, laughter, and memories that will last a life time, then look no further than R Family Vacations.  And, if you have occasion to wonder if things are really changing for the better…then take a good look at what they’ve been able to accomplish and know…without a shadow of a doubt…that we’ve definitely come a long way…gayby! J

You may contact R Family Vacations by visiting their website at www.rfamilyvacations.com or by calling (917)-522-0985. Book your adventure today!

If you would like more information about the Family Equality Council, visit their website at www.familyequality.org

For more information on the Wonder Valley Ranch Resort and Conference Center, visit their website at wondervalley.com

Gregg Kaminsky and Kelli Carpentar, owners of R Family VacationsGregg Kaminksy and Kelli Carpenter, business partners in R Family Vacations

Family Equality Council

Bill Butchart and Andra Oshinsky of Family Equality Council


Here are 2 of the families I met while attending the events at Wonder Valley Ranch Resort.  The weeks festivities were hosted by R Family Vacations.

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Meet Stephen Botte and his son Francesco.  Stephen is a California native.  He has recently separated from his partner and is now raising his son as a single dad.  Steven loves the family life.  He has taken several vacations with R Family Vacations and says he will continue to do so.  Francesco, who was a little camera shy, was too busy having a good time to give me a quote, but that smile says alot! :)


This is Cindy Bokitch and wife Julie Dryzmala from Vancouver, B.C.  This is their 9th vacation with R Family Vacations. There children (from left to right: Bowen, Harper, and Merlin) were filling their plates just moments before this picture. Julie said, "We've had an amazing time here.  Everyone has been so kind, and this place is just beautiful." I was also able to have a sit down interview with Cindy, the highlights of which ca found in the related article.  Are they are gorgeous looking group?

Introducing the 2013-14 Bulldog Pride Fund Scholars

  • Parent Category: News
  • Published: Thursday, 05 September 2013 12:50
  • Written by Jason Scott

Introducing the 2013-14 Bulldog Pride Fund Scholars


The Bulldog Pride Fund is pleased and proud to bestow $10,000 to the 2013-14 Bulldog Pride Fund scholars: Raven Kapphahn, Phillippe Prohoroff, the student performing as Fresno State’s mascot, TimeOut; plus Dausha Calhoun and Justin Kamimoto. Each receives a $2,000 scholarship for the 2013-14 academic year.

The Bulldog Pride Fund is an endowed scholarship that was established under the auspices of the Fresno State Alumni Association: “To support students at Fresno State.” Since 2006, it has awarded 28 scholarships valued at $49,000.

Made possible by nearly 500 donors and friends. Please make your gift to the Bulldog Pride Fund today! And, thank you for your continued support.

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Gay Fresno's E-Shop is now open!

  • Parent Category: News
  • Published: Monday, 29 July 2013 17:20
  • Written by Jason Scott

Our Pride Shop selection

We're proud to announce that our online store is now available!  You can pick out any item and have it delivered right to your door!  The same great prices you've seen us offer during pride and other events.  Please browse our store.  You can always find it in the future on our site menu, listed as "Store".

Thank you for supporting Gay Fresno, all funds raised go to helping our all volunteer organization.